bobthedog wrote:
In some ways I agree with Benn and think that keeping an escape hatch is not a bad shout, but keeping an escape hatch means you anticipate a real possibility of not doing well here. I don't know if that is the committment that may actually be required to make a success. It is only my opinion, but I think it has merit having seen people come and go in the 4 years I have been here. There are no guarantees in any case, but putting yourself in a position where going back is not going to be a simple case of booking flights makes you more prepared to fight for what you want.
Sounds as though you have figured it out well enough.
And Dave, your lass is working hard too.. There is an advantage in itself....

I am with Rob on this one, with an easy way out there are many times when it would have been much easier for us to just hop on a plane and hightail it home, besides why have all that cash tied up in something you cant even enjoy when there is far more to spend it on here
If it wasnt for Mrs LOL66 working things would be very different

echo of a conversation my wife and i had last week the advice is good with sound reason and and experiance but our situation with equity and the mind to make a 100% commitment says sell before we move.